Saying Thank You!

Make it a habit to tell people thank you. To express your appreciation, sincerely and without the expectation of anything in return. Truly appreciate those around you, and you'll soon find many others around you. Truly appreciate life, and you'll find that you have more of it.

Does it Matters?

Is it really age doesn't matter when it comes to love?

*** Michael:
Large age differences in a relationship are socially unacceptable so for that reason it matters.
But if you look at it from the perspective of love,
I don't see how a teenager can love someone in their 30's, different levels of maturity, life experiences, stuff like that would make it really difficult to have a proper relationship. I don't really see how it could be love, probably admiration or something similar.

*** Jessica:
Age can matter,
but in reality its the state of mind that counts, as long as your not taken advantage by someone older and vice versa age really dosent matter when it comes to dealing with feeling and heart..

Be Yourself Quotes

*** The older you get the more you realize you can't make everyone happy and it's NOT necessary for everyone to like you..


*** No one can go through life and maintain a successful happiness without maintaining the diligent be yourself mindset through out it.


*** If they don't like you, the way you look, or how you live your life that's their problem not yours. Your life will still go on.


*** Improve yourself, but never change. Be someone better, but remain yourself. Forget who hurt you, but don't forget who loves you everyday.Forget the past that makes you cry and focus on the present that makes you smile.

*** If you believe in yourself you can conquer all your battles in this world, be brave!
-Sfiso MaAphula Ngema quotes


*** Life is not about competition it's about making your dreams come true and becoming independent.

Saying Thank You

***Make it a habit to tell people thank you. To express your appreciation, sincerely and without the expectation of anything in return. Truly appreciate those around you, and you'll soon find many others around you. Truly appreciate life, and you'll find that you have more of it.
---Ralph Marston

*** If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough.
---Meister Eckhart


***'Thank you' is the best prayer that anyone could say. I say that one a lot. Thank you expresses extreme gratitude, humility, understanding.
--Alice Walker

Emotions of Love #152

Tips para Mabilis Makimutan ang Ex Bf or Gf

1. Isa sa mga pinakamahirap gawin ngunit epektibo ay ang pagputol sa komunikasyon na nag-uugnay sa iyo sa kanya. I know that this is a torture pero sa simula lang ito. Makikita mo rin ang benefits nito in the long run. Ano bang mga bagay ang nagkokonek sa iyo sa dating kasintahan? Friend mo ba siya sa facebook, mas maiiging burahin na siya sa iyong friend's list. May cellphone number ka pa ba niya at mga messages sa inbox na naka-store? Burahin mo na ito. Magpalit ng sim card kung kinakailangan. Anumang nag-uugnay sa iyo sa kanya, kung nais mo talagang makapag move on nang mabilisan ay maaga pa lang ay putulin mo na.

2. Huwag nang ipilit pa ang hindi na pwedeng mangyari. Ihinto mo na ang ilusyon na minsan kahit isang lingo ay pwede pa kayong magkasama o mag stroll sa mall o mag date kaya sa paborito ninyong restaurant. Isipin mo na lang, may dahilan kung bakit kayo naghiwalay, at may mabigat na rason kung bakit ito nangyari. Kung nais mo talaga siyang kalimutan, higit mong isipin angmga pangit na nangyari sa inyosa nakalipas kaysa sa mga matatamis na alaala kasama siya.

3. Hindi naman talaga madaling gawin ito nang mag-isa, kaya't simulan mong makisalamuha sa iyong mga kaibigan, makipag bonding sa iyong mgakapamilya at simulang muling maghanap ng mga bagong makikilala. Malay mo isa sa mga bagong kakilala na ito ang maging bago mong pag-ibig. You can never tell. Ngunit sa kabilang banda ay iwasan mo ang mga kaibigan o kakilala na nag-uugnay sa iyo sa dating kasintahan. Maaari kasing tuksuhin ka nilang muli na balikan ang dating bf/gf, hindi sila makakatulong sa iyo at ito ang dapat mong tanggapin.

4. Magsimulang mag-enjoy, magliwaliw, humanap nang mga pagkakaabalahan. Kahit nga sa bahay lang ay marami kang magagawa, maglinis, magluto at tumulong sa inyong family business kung mayroon man. Keep yourself busy at the same time enjoy your new life.

5. At dahil nga gusto mo nang makalimot. Subukan mong baguhin ang iyong looks. Try to re-invent yourself. Hindi lang artista ang meron nun pati rin mga broken-hearted. Sa mga lalaki, pwede mong subukan na magpa kalbo o magpahaba ng buhok, depende kung anong bagay sa iyo. Pwede mo ring subukang baguhin ang estilo ng iyong pananamit. Dati ka bang emo? Bakit hindi mo subukang i-try ang plain and smart look. Sa mga babae, pwede kang magpaputol ng buhok kuing babagay sa iyo, mag work out, mag diyeta at iba pang magbibigay enhancementsa iyong physical looks.  new look represents your new life. Sa bagong buhay magsisimula ang bagong pag-ibig.

Sabi Nga...

Hindi nga ganun kadali ang makalimutan ang nakalipas lalona't kung nagdulot ito sa iyo ngsaya, ligaya, tamis at inspirasyon. Ang mahalaga naman ay naghanap ka ng paraan para makalimot at sumubok kang harapin ang bagong buhay sa positibong paraan nang wala siya.


Cridet: symbianboy

Mga Payo sa Pag-ibig ni Marcelo Santos III

*** Dapat wala nang advice for the day. Kahit ako, hindi ko nasusunod. Kasi ang puso parang tao, matigas ang ulo. Paniniwalaan ang gusto. Kaya ang ginagawa ko, iniisip at pinaniniwalaan ko na lang yung mga nagpapasaya sa puso ko kahit minsan nasasaktan na ako. OK lang, manhid na ako. Sanay na akong masaktan. Ikaw, sanay ka na rin ba?

*** Mahal kita,Mahal mo ako, pakialam natin sa ibang tao.” Ang mahalaga lang ay yung alam niyong masaya kayo sa isa’t isa SATAMANG PANAHON, SA TAMANG PAGKAKATAON at SA TAMANG PARAAN. Madaling maging masaya sa piling ng isang tao basta’t alam mong wala kang natatapakang iba. The lesson is: Love the right ONE at the right time, at the right place, and at the right way.


*** Sabi nila, sa pag-ibig, ang lahat ng tao ay nagiging tanga. Pero hindi ako naniniwala dun. Walang taong tanga sa pag-ibig.. Siguro kaya nangyari yun ay baka “NAGKATAONLANG.” Nagkataon na masaktan para gumaling. Iwanan para makita ang totoong kaibigan sa buhay niya. Lokohin para malaman niyang may mas higit pa sa taong iyon na magmamahal sa kanya. Lahat ay NAGKATAON LANG.


*** Lahat ng tao napapagod. Nagkakasakit.Nanghihina. Ang PUSO ay parang TAO. Ang kaibahan nga lang, kapag ang tao nasaktan o nagkasakit, nandiyan ang tindahan para makabili ng gamot.. pero ang PUSO, mahirap makahanap ng lunas sa sakit na idinulot ng pagkakataon, pag-ibig at tadhana..


*** Sapat na ba ang I love you at I love you too? Sapat na ba ang I care for you and I always do? Sapat na ba ang I will and I do? Ang gusto ko lang yung yakap niya, ang gusto ko lang ay yung nandiyan siya kasama ako, yun lang, sapat na.

***Ang hirap bumitiw sa taong ayaw kang pakalawan. Yung tipong ayaw mo na pero gusto pa rin niya. Ang hirap kumawala. Natatakot ka kapag iniwan mo siya, baka saktan niya sarili niya. Konsensiya mo pa yun. The advice is “Take the risks.”Mas mabuti nang masaktan mo siya ng sobra at biglaan kaysa naman hindi mo nga siya sinasaktan, pero ikaw mismo ang nananakit sa sarili mo.


*** Kapag may di pagkakaunawaan.. huwag sumabay sa init ng ulo. Kaya nga dalawa ang tenga natin para dapat mas makinig tayo kesa sa isang bibig na salita ng salita. Hindi marersolba ang problema kung gusto niyong kayo palagi ang panalo o ang tama. Makinig. Umunawa. Magpakumbaba. Matutong tumanggap ng pagkakamali.

Paano ba magmahal na di nasasaktan?

***kasama na sa pag mamahal ang masaktan ka, may mga pagkakataon na magtatalo kayo ng karelasyon mo pero hindi ibig sabihin na hindi ninyo mahal ang isat-isa kailangan nyo lang na malampasan ang mga pagsubok na kakaharapin ninyo ng iyong kapareha

***Actually sa pag-ibig dapat open ka na masaktan. Dapat handa ka dun kasi minsan yung sakit na mararanasan mo minsan intensyonal pa yun. Kaya dapat handa ka. Para kasing sugal yan eh pwede kang matalo pwede ka ring manalo. Dapat you should know how to play your cards well. Dapat nag-iisip ka rin. Dapat aware ka rin sa nagyayari sa paligid mo lalo nasa emotions nung taong mahal mo. Dapat you must always give your best shot para wala kang pagsisihan sa huli. Ganun talaga eh sabi ko nga parang sugal yan hindi mo alam kung anong klaseng baraha mapupunta sayo at kung pano maglaro yung makakalaban mo... Kaya make sure na patas ka maglaro at dapat nag-iisip ka rin para sa huli matalo ka man o masaktan... wala kang pagsisihan... cguro medyo manghihinayang lang...

Sa love part na ng life ang masaktan,umiyak o mabigo! Parang ako ilang beses nkong ngmahal ng totoo at masaktan ng sobra-sobra im here i stand up im going to cheer up now i know love is like a game sometimes you lose and other sometimes you win! This love is a part of life na sometimes sobrang sya mo and sometimes sobra knang nsasaktan ng dhil lng sa love! So now manage your own life! Sa una lng yan so dpat kpag ngmhal tyo wag ntin isagadsa umpisa! GoOdLuck for Us for Love ^_^!

How To Deal With Long Distance Relationship

Long distance relationships can be very difficult, especially at the start. It can be very annoying when you love someone but you're separated by distance. They can put strain on your life, test your commitment with your partner and they can determine whether you really do have the patienceto make it work. But, always remember couples in long distance always have a strong communication and trust, providing a stable foundation for a happy, long lasting relationship.

       **** 10 STEPS ***
1.Come to terms with your new relationship.

Whether your partner has to move away due to work or whether its a new relationship that has formed via the internet, you need to realize that you are separated bydistance, for now. Take sometime to reflect upon this. The most difficult thing to deal with is the fact you can't see them. This is something that might hurt, especially if its anew relationship and you want to go out and spend time with them. But you need to come to terms with this fact, otherwise your relationship won't make progress and you'll end up being unhappy.

2.Accept what you have.

If you love your partner just be thankful at the fact that you have them, even if they aren't 'with' you right now. Be thankful that you have a relationship with strong communication foundations and that you have someone special in your life.

3.Communication.

Talk to the people that you're close too, including your friends and family. Let them know you're situation and how you're feeling. It's important to always be open and honest with your partner, the key to having a happy relationship is a good communication bond between the two of you.

4.Establish a stable method of communication.

Although it might not sound like much, but it can be extremely difficult at first to work out how you're going to have a healthy form of communication.Whether its Skype webcam calls, a games console headsetor a simple phone call, its important to findout the best ways that you can talk. Plan out when will be the best time, are you and yourpartner in different time zones? Will your partner have to take time out for hobbies or work? Things like this should be considered and discussed.

5.Have fun.

There's no point being in an unhappy relationship, you can't change the distance, but it doesn't mean that the both of you can't have fun. Watch some tv together (you could stick your favourite tv program or film on at the same time and watch it "together"), make inside jokes between you, play games,take up hobbies together, the list is endless. Just don't let the fact that you're not with each other in person stop you both from getting the most out of a relationship. You don't have to be sat right next to them to watch TV with them. You don't have to be eating at the same dinner table to have dinner together. And you certainly don't have to be standing right next to them to have fun.

6. Be optimistic.

Although it is normal for everyone to have their "down days" try not to let the distance get to you. It may be hard if you miss them, but telling them how you feel and letting it out might make it a whole lot better. Always look on the positive side,at least if you're partner isn't right next to you 24/7 you don't have to put up with their annoying habits and you get some time to yourself. Just remember, long distance relationships are what you make of them - if you make it like a "normal" relationship then it will be a"normal" relationship where you both participate in day to day couple activities.

7. Don't let other people decide for you.

Although it might be helpful to let other people give their advice every now and then, remember not to let other people control your relationship. A long distance relationship is no different to any other relationship, would you let people tell you what to do then? Don't be put off by what other people say, do what you feel is right. If it makes you and your partner happy talking every night on Skype then do it. Don't let other people spoil it for you, and certainly don't let other people get you down about it. Chances are they've never experienced a long distance relationship before, so they don't really know what's going on.

8. Get online.

A good thing for couples struggling in a long distance relationship to do is to get online and do some "research". Look up some articlesfor helpful tips that may improve your relationship. There's also many long distance relationship websites that offer advice for couples and you might be able to chat to other couples and get advice and tips from them.

9. Make plans.

Even if these plans don't go ahead, talk about your future. Where would you like to visit with your partner and what would you like to do when you're there? Talking about the future can break the distance and make you feel more positive that the relationship is heading somewhere. Also, its important to plan to see your partner, especially if its for the first time.

10. Regularly see each other.

Visiting each other as much as possible makes the whole situation better. Being able to spend some quality time in person with your partner is one of the best things in a long distance relationship. Just think, you can look forward to seeing them and it makes the time when you're together more special. Make sure that when you see each other you go out and visit places and do things together!

*** Source : Wiki How

45 Things A Girl Want, But Won't Ask For:

1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.…
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.

Are you rememberingthis?

6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.

KEEP READING ..

11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto yourlap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say “I love her more than you”, deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. It makes her feel loved.

Are you thinking of someone?

16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she’s beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.
21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car - it makes her feelprotected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she’s your everything - only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her - if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT - so just hug her.
24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know! WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US ..
26. Don’t lie to her.
27. DON’T cheat on her.
28. Take her ANYWHERE she wants.
29. Text message or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at school, and how much you miss her.
30. Be there for her whenever she needs you, and even when she doesn’t need you, just be there so she’ll know that she can always count on you.

ARE YOU STILL READING THIS?
YOU BETTER, BECAUSE IT’S IMPORTANT.

31. Hold her close when she’s cold so she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek; (it will give herthe hint that you wantto kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Don’t ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If she’s upset, comfort her.

REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT ..

36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her, hold her in your arms as long as possible.

MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED.

41. Call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much you love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while you’re sitting on her.

Letting Go of Someone

Letting go doesn't mean giving up...
it means moving on. It is one of the hardest things a person can do. Starting at birth, we grasp on to anything we can get our hands on, and hold on as if we will cease to exist when we let go.
We feel that letting go is giving up, quitting, and that as we all know is cowardly. But as we grow older we are forced to change our way of thinking. We are forced to realize that letting go means accepting things that cannot be. It means maturing and moving on, no matter how hard you have to fight yourself to do so."

Disease of Your Affection

Disease of Your Affection

Don't lie to make me happy
I don't need a tainted charm
Your false feelings
Bring emotional harm

I am afraid of loneliness
Our love no longer true
But can I stand alone
Without leaning on you

Disease of your affection
Penetrating me
Your beauty like a virus
Attacking violently
Not to worry, I'll be fine

I'll make it through the day
But when tomorrow comes
I'll have the courage to walk away

---Derek del Barrio

Still Thinking Of You

Still Thinking Of You

i haven't found anyone better for me than you
and i'm too stubborn to call you on the phone
i forgot how we got in this situation but i think about you when i'm alone
i all too often dwell on the past though i do so less every day
it's not that i haven't moved on you just impacted my life that way
maybe we'll see each other again but then again maybe not and if that chance arises i'd like to give it a shot

---Derek del Barrio

The Hardest Thing To Do

The Hardest Thing to do in Life is Saying Goodbye

today i learned a lesson that will always be true
saying goodbye to someone is the hardest thing to do
i've never felt a loss until i said goodbye
i thought i was strong and i broke down and cried
never will i forget the times we had though the reflections are happy
it makes me rather sad the most brutal of men cries at the past
i only wish the good times would last so i humor myself i'd smile if i could why can't things work out?
because life isn't supposed to be that good

-Derek del Barrio

Rejection MEQ#85

To be rejected by someone doesn’t mean you should also reject yourself or that you should think of yourself as a lesser person.
It doesn’t mean that nobody will ever love you anymore. Remember that only ONE person has rejected you at the moment, and it only hurt so much because to you,that person’s opinion symbolized the opinion of the whole world, of God.
---Jocelyn Soriano

Break Up MEQ#82

In love, no one can harm anyone else; we are each of us responsible for our own feelings and cannot blame someone else for what we feel. It hurt when I lost each of the various men I fell in love with. Now, though, I am convinced that no one loses anyone, because no one owns anyone. That is the true experience of freedom: having the most important thing in the world without owning it.

---Paulo Coelho

Love Thoughts MEQ#60

I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.

Love Thoughts MEQ#59

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang upon him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to theworld when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're justas pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you.... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's her.'

Love Thoughts MEQ#58

Have you ever been inlove? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like'maybe we should be just friends'turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. Ithurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind.It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.
--- Niel Gaiman

Love Thoughts MEQ#56

It is only when you begin to understand that if you and I are truly in love, 
if I go to the place in me that is love and you to the place in you that is love we are ‘together’ in Love. 
We start to understand that what love means is that we are sharing a common state together. 
That state exists in you and it exists in me.
--- Ram Dass